On navigating co-founder relationships.
Greg and I met during our freshman year at Brown and immediately became close friends.
And so when we started our first company, Exo, together during our senior year, there was already a huge amount of trust & understanding underpinning the business relationship.
At the beginning it was actually quite difficult to define our individual responsibilities since we’re fairly similar.
Unlike conventional wisdom for picking a co-founder, we don’t have different and opposite ways of thinking that somehow come together in a perfectly balanced vision.
In reality, we have quite similar personalities, skills, interests, and ways of thinking.
Early on it wasn’t clear who should do Marketing, who should do Operations, and so on, since either one of us really could have focused on any area.
That’s actually proven to be quite helpful over the years though, as we can each chime in on all parts of the business — while still having clear delineations of responsibility — and we also rarely disagree on important points in ways that very different co-founders might.
In terms of tactical advice, we’ve found it very helpful to do monthly check-ins on our co-founder relationship.
We’ll give each other candid feedback, reflect on how we’re performing individually and together, and above all make sure we’re both having fun.
And so whenever little things come up day to day, we’ll just note them down and address them during the monthly check-in together, rather than engaging in the moment.