On learning to say no.
You have to hit a breaking point to get better at something.
One way to accelerate that process is by setting goals.
By setting very clear goals around things that you want to achieve in a month, quarter, or year, you can start if you’re on track. From there, it gets easier to say no to the things that don’t help you reach your stated goals.
It’s also critical that you develop criteria for things you’ll say yes to.
For example, when it comes to investing, I may be looking at 30 to 40 deals a week. But, I’ll typically only dig into a quarter of them based on whether they’re in my sphere of expertise.
If those deals don’t fall within my realm of real estate, fintech, healthcare, or consumer internet, then it’s better to shift those meetings to someone else on the team or pass.