On forging her own path.
There is sometimes a tendency to believe there’s a “right” way to build a career in venture: you have to be the biggest tweeter, the most active conference goer, the schmooziest, the immediate thought leader.
I think that’s a dangerous road. There isn’t one way to do it.
If big events aren’t your thing, figure out how to create intimate settings. If you express things best in words, start blogging (and if that gives you nightmares, don’t!).
Careers aren’t any more likely to be quick hits than seed stage startups are — so take your time to figure out what feels right. The relationships and position you create from that will be worth it.
For me, a small group of other investors and entrepreneurs I met early on and spoke to often have become critical to many of the deals I’ve worked on (and also valued friends and advisors.)
That circle started small but, over time, it grew. Same goes, by the way, for deploying capital — deals feel fun but they last a long time. Resist the urge to do them because you’re antsy.